Early relationship that is
present in high school and college is one of the most pressing concern to most
of the college students. This concern can affect the student in two ways. It
can either be positive or negative. It depends on the student on how they will
handle the concern. The decision lies in the hands of the one who is concerned.
One positive effect of an early relationship is that they can have an
inspiration which can boost their potentials to a higher level. It is a good
thing that we can achieve something higher because of our inspiration because
we can accomplish better things in life. I think another positive effect is
that we have a companion, a friend, a teacher, a lover and a best friend, all
at the same time. If you’re happy you will be able to study cheerfully which
will result in having a good mark. Also because your boyfriend or girlfriend is
your teacher or should I say your second teacher, it will make you study more
so that you can brag what you got or accomplished because he or she taught you
so well. And also you will study more time with him or her in order to spend
more time with him or her and more time in studying.But when there is a positive effect, there is also the negative of it. We also have our negative effect which can result to early pregnancy. If your boyfriend or girlfriend is not in a close relationship with God, no doubt that this will happen because if he or she have a close and intimate relationship with our Savior, he or she will not be on the wrong path. He or she will consider you as a precious human and will let you finish your studies and will let you achieve your dreams first, that is if he or she really loves you and if he or she is with God. Your boyfriend or girlfriend should bring you closer to God so that both of you will be guided in every step that you make. It will also remind you of your boundaries and it will help in strengthening your relationship. So much for that effect. Another effect is that you wont be able to give your full attention in your studies because you also priority your boyfriend or girlfriend. It is common for a boy and girl relationship to be communicating with each other all the time. Some common ways to communicate is by texting, calling, chatting, etc. so instead of giving your full focus to your studies you also give attention to him or her because he might be mad at you because he or she might think that you are just ignoring him or her or he or she can also think that you don’t like him or her any longer.
It
always depends on us on what will be the outcome of our relationship but it
will be better if we wait for the right time, right person that God has planned
for us because it will be the best. God’s plan is always the best. I don’t know
when that will happen but I know it will happen maybe not soon but it will
happen. I will wait for that because I know that God’s plan will never fail us.
I think the possible solution for this concern is to know if this really is the
will of God and also we should wait patiently with the right attitude.
